| Nu-B Corner attempts to help answer the frequently asked questions of those new to the lifestyle or interested in finding out about the lifestyle.
Questions that you may want to ask, are afraid to ask or just plain think about asking. We suggest as well, that you visit the
Chat Room where you can ask questions and look through the
Swing Dictionary.
What is swinging?
Swinging is primarily an activity of couples who engage in sexual activity and social interaction together with people other than their partner.
What are Couples Clubs?
Couples clubs are considered to be the softer side of Swing Clubs. You will find not only swingers there, but also couples who enjoy the erotic atmosphere of the club
and want to spend an erotic night out with their partner but don't swing, couples who seek only to find females to join them,
couples who prefer soft swing, more upscale couples, etc.
You'll also find that Couples club though big on sensuality, are more relaxed and have a "club" feel to events.
Are there different types of swinging?
There are many different facets of swinging such as soft swinging, hard swinging, threesome, moresomes, fetish, etc. and more facets being created every day as new couples enter
the lifestyle creating new ways of enjoying the lifestyle and their
sexuality.
See the
Swing Dictionary.
Who are swingers?
Swingers are traditionally male-female couples, married or dating, in a committed relationship. There are also single women, men and same sex couples. Swingers come from all different backgrounds, nationalities, race, economic levels and job classes.
What are the ages of swingers?
The ages of couples in the lifestyle ranges from early twenties to sixties. Most clubs and social gatherings have a varied group of couples. No matter what age range you fit into, you will find it easy to make friends and meet couples. Just remember to be open minded because with some people you just can't tell their age from their physical appearance.
What are swingers like?
Swingers are just like everyone else with also a tendency towards sexual adventure. They are emotionally secure and mature, in a committed relationship with their partners, and are open and honest about their sexual desires and appetites. Many swingers and lifestyle couples find that other swingers are very friendly and accepting people.
Are there bi-sexual couples in the lifestyle?
Yes there are bi-sexual couples in the lifestyle, usually the female in a couple or a single female. There are also bi-sexual couples where only the male in a couple is bi-sexual, but this is less often seen.
What does swinging do for a couple?
Swingers say that they have increased sexual enjoyment and everyday intimacy with their partner after entering the lifestyle. Their understanding of and acceptance of each other and themselves are increased. They have more open and honest communication and their sexual pleasure is more fulfilling. They are able to sexually
fulfill their fantasies and desire for sexual variety. Women also find that they
become more sexually assertive and their self-confidence in and out of swinging increases.
Is there guilt or jealousy in swinging?
Swingers say there is no guilt or jealousy in their relationship because both partners were interested in the lifestyle. They are open and honest about their feelings and desires with their partners, are committed to their partners, set swing rules that both feel comfortable with, only seek to enhance their already good sex life and gain new friends.
Where does swinging occur?
Swinging can take place at
on premise swing clubs, private swing parties, couples' homes, hotels, etc. evolving from meetings at a club, party or social event.
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